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I don't understand his actions but don't think he is playing games

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Question - (8 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2009)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi

this is a loong story . almost its happening for a year. well I will cut shot.this guy would flirt nonverbal at beginning. almost a month, he tried. but I did not give in. so after some weeks when I did. he was happy one day, then serious the next day . so we spoke. but from next day, he would start to look at me or stare but never approach/ well I lost hopes, i felt he was not interested. was busy with exams and other stuff. It all went on and on. he would only glance or look at a distance for the last whole year.

now this year , the guy suddenly said hi.

he trys to talk to me. but I ignore him with shyness, so after somedays I did make a move. he was indeed very happy. looking intently . great smile. crossing arms.

but from next day did not turn up.

plzzzz guys tell me ur opinion.

i do not personelly think.. this guy knows how to playgames.

plzz donot saythat,

thanx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009):

there are just some guys that cant make a first move. i dont think he is playing games. from what you say ... he looks at you he must be attracted to you... some guys feel intimidated when they are attracted to a girl and can not make a first move because they are terrified of being rejected. i know exactly how you feel... if you really like this guy the best thing too do is to approach him first . let him no you are interested and you want to get to know him ... But then again there are guys who just like the chase... so try him! see what he's about. worse comes to worse you let him go . if he truly likes you hell come to you after that.=)

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