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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for a few months. and he has not given me any reason not to trust him. however, his ex is still in the picture. she still calls and texts him. he will tell me that she calls and texts but he always does it in a way where he looks annoyed. i don't think he would cheat on me. but, i don't trust his ex. she has a boyfriend and is happy with him, but it still worries me. my boyfriend got with her a few years ago. and they broke up. after he broke up with his second ex, he went back to the first one. but she broke up with him after a year. so i can't help but wonder if he's really over her since she was the one that broke up with him.it's driving me crazy. and i know i can't tell him who to be friends with. its just that i've been cheated on in the past and it's hard for me to trust guys completely. he tells me he's not like other guys and he would never cheat on me. but that's what my ex said and look what happened.how can i get peace of mind?
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reader, ez4u2say +, writes (10 November 2008):
Sounds like she wants him again because he has a new gf. If he really cares for you he will change his number and have no contact. And honestly it takes two to tango so it sounds like you don't trust either of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): One guy told me the same thing about him..saying that he wasn't like the other guys..and after almost a year he just flat out told me that he wanted to be friends..and later on I found out that it was because he wanted to try and rekindle things with his ex..):Im not saying that its the same with your man...but if he is serious about not wanting her to call..and he's so 'annoyed'...then tell him to change his number..and only speak with her when he sees her on the street.
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