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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 weeks now, and I notice that sexually she has so much of a sex drive. I, on the other hand, am one to want to do these sexual things but i noticed that i may not feel that much lust/of a sex drive. It feels like my sex drive in general isnt how it should be. I came up with a couple possible reasons, and I'd like opinions as to weather the solutions i came up with are sound or not.1: I figure that the problem may come from me masturbating and watching porn so much. Only recently, like a few days ago i stopped entirely. Before that i used to be the kind to watch porn and masturbate at least once a day. I'm assuming by stopping I'll feel more of a sex drive the next time my girlfriend and I mess around.2: I'm simply thinking/worrying about it too much. Maybe if i just dont think about this whole thing then this "problem" will go away on its own. I used quotes because I'm trying not to see it as an actual problem and worry about it.That's all i have for this, and I would like some kind of feedback if what I'm doing would be okay, and if theres anything else i can do.
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (9 December 2010):
Good call on the porn. No more porn for a long time, as you need to put your interest into her body not others.
Ya and stop worrying about it. It'll take a few weeks before you get that porn out of your system. But the mind is a wonderful thing. Eventually it will get erased by thoughts of her. Good luck.
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