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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So i'm really confused about this guy. This is our story...Last year this guy me and this guy built a really good friendship, we have so much in common and would talk for hours and were friends with each others friends and I have fun in his company. Then one time I was joking around trying to find out who he fancies and he told me it was me. We stayed friends even though i said i didn't see him like that, but it was probably because i fancied someone else at the time that i couldn't even give myself a chance to see us as more than friends. And also the fact was that his best friend also fancied me to so i saw it as a no go.Anyways, out of nowhere I hadn't seen him in months then when i did see him out one night i started to like him as more than a friend. I told him this, and he said he likes me to and that his always fancied me so he was happy. Yet I have just realised since i told him that i fancied him, i'm always the one arranging to meet which never follows through or i'm starting the conversation off. And i think that surely if he fancies me then he would be making the effort right? Because I don't feel i should be doing all the chasing, so now i've given up on him as i don't think it'll work out and i don't want to appear needy. Am I right in doing this? Or does he actually like me and is just being complicated about it all....
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reader, concierge13  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 You're right. Don't do all the chasing. It's not enough that he tells you he likes you. He should make a move and prove that he's really into you, like ask you out or something.
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