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writes:im 19 and i've had sex with my boyfried and and dont regret it but i feel i should regret it. he was my first and we've only been together for like a month officially but have been dating for like 5 months.am i just reading too much into this. i wish i could talk to my mum about this but traditional asian family = no sex befre marriage Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): If you like him for marriage talk to your parents for him then both side parents agreed means you won, then you can enjoy continuously without guilty feeling (if not agreed then stop it, because it will hurt you a lot)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): Hey there, if your heart tells you it's okay, it was safe, you enjoyed it and you like your boyfriend, don't let your mind take control over that feeling. Coming from a traditional background, you are a bit lost in between what you want and what you should be wanting. Don't think too much about it, there is nothing wrong about your situation.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (23 February 2011):
Yes you are reading too much into it. You had sex with your boyfriend which you don't regret, that's the end of it.
Just keep doing it more (safely) and enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): I can perfectly relate to how you're feeling because I come from a very traditional and strict family as well. You shouldn't feel guilty nor regret it at all: you had sex with your bf, you're 19 and everything it's just okay to do it. Safe sex with someone you care about is just a nice, natural and totally acceptable part of life. Just be safe, relax, don't read to much into it and... enjoy it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): Your first experience of sex is one that you will remember for the rest of your life. Be glad that is with someone you care about & do not waste your emotions on regret. The world moves on it always has & always will; old fashioned idea's about sex are thankfully changing. Sex is a natural & wonderful way to increase our wellbeing do not let negative thoughts sully what should be a great experience. Have fun (written by a 50yr old mum)
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