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He is so established and knows what he wants, and one thing he wants is a woman who will have sex with him.

Q.   Dear Readers, I met this guy Dec 23. I am head over heels for this man, I am 19 and he is 28! He is so established in life, but most of all his is very religous as I am! His words sit in my head, when he touches me I stop breathing, just yesterday ...

A.   18 February 2009: thank you all, basically what you are all saying is...talk to him first, and if he doesnt like what i say....than o well. just dont give it up to him, dont lower my standards to meet his. i guess u are right. god willing, everything will work out! ... (read in full...)

I don't NEED a guy, but I really WANT one. Why could this be?

Q.   Im 16, soon to be 17. I've only had one boyfriend, which was in May 2008, but it ended before it started. We didn't kiss or get intimate in any way as it was my first. He was the only guy that liked me back. However, I really really want a gu...

A.   17 February 2009: maybe its because....hmmm.....uuhhhh... YOUR HUMAN!!! sorry sweetheart for the slight slap of reality, but your our human, no matter how much one says they are not interested in being in a relationship they cant help it because its in human nature ... (read in full...)

I am having a baby boy and I need help with names!

Q.   HELLO!! I am very excited, and I know this is a relationship site but I would very much appreciate your opinion? I am havinga baby boy in a like two weeks and me and my husband can't agree on the name. We want something powerful and I was think...

A.   17 February 2009: yeah, i dot Andrew either, it is very Generic. when i think of powerful, i think Masiah. if you are a strong religious person i would consider that. or maybe a middle name. but what my family does is, we put the middle name and first name together ... (read in full...)

My sister's new boyfriend RAPED me 4 years ago... how do I handle this???

Q.   About 4 years ago, I was raped. I was 15 at the time, I am 19 now. I never told anyone but my sister. And I told her to never tell anyone. She gave me her promise. (She is 24 now) it all happend on april 4th 2004. I was coming home from visiting my ...

A.   15 February 2009: Thank you all. Your advice really helped me in my deepest darkest hour. I was on the verge of ending it all in an instant. But I realized, I will not play the victim any more, I will stand up and I will fight this thing. I haven't spoke to any of my ... (read in full...)

He raped me, and is now dating my sister! What should I do?

Q.   About 4 years ago, I was raped. I was 15 at the time, I am 19 now. I never told anyone but my sister. And I told her to never tell anyone. She gave me her promise. (She is 24 now) it all happend on april 4th 2004. I was coming home from visiting my ...

A.   14 February 2009: No. She does not know this was him....and honestly I'm not sure if knows it was me, he smiles and jokes when I am around like nothin ever happened or maybe its his sick mind games he plays, but my mom loves him and my sister hold him on a pedastol. ... (read in full...)

He's out of my league, and we will never be. But I love him so much.

Q.   I love this guy I met, when I say love, I will drop out of college and start a family, or even have his baby if he wants me to. I just love him, I may even be infactuated with him. I think about him and cry sometimes, he is 28 and has his life ...

A.   14 February 2009: Thank you so much. That makes things that much easier for me. Its a lot easier taking advice from a coomplete stranger opposed from a friend, because more than likely your friends will tell you what you want to hear, intentionally or not! Thank you ... (read in full...)

I hate my father...

Q.   I hate my father and mother. I stilllive at home and I have no friends and no boyfriend and nobody wants me. I am always helping my dad on the farm and I get nothing for it. When I ask can I do something he says I can't, but I can when it suits ...

A.   14 February 2009: To be honest, it sounds like you are fat. Wrong terminlogy, well vuloptuous, and he probably calls you lazy because your not running aroung like a bat out of hell to make things perfect, he may just be annoyed that you are on the thicker side and ... (read in full...)

What is this small mark on my penis?

Q.   It looks like a bruise and it doesn't come over the skin, I can rub my finger it and it doesn't hurt although there are slight pains at times and there's no bump or anything and there is a vein leading up to it, I would love to get tested but I ...

A.   14 February 2009: You might want to log on to WebMD for that kind of advice kiddo! I don't think no one on here works in that kind of field!... (read in full...)

How can I let him know I'm nowhere ready to sleep with him?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. I once told him that I'm not abstinent because of my religion but I explained to him that I'm not just gonna give it up to any guy but I think he's been hinting me that he thinks he's gonna get ...

A.   14 February 2009: Girl drop him. You should be focusing on wut college you want to attend and getting finacial aid and scholarships. You not going to freak this boy and obviously that's all he wants. Let him go and stick to your gunz, the way you think makes you all ... (read in full...)

My heart is not in this marriage any more...

Q.   Hi, I need some advice. I have been married for over 10 years and have a 5 year old son. My husband and I have drifted apart since my son was born. He has treated me like an enemy and I feel like I have been drifting further away and with drawn from ...

A.   14 February 2009: Well the cris rock theory has proven to be true. Just like he said, if u divorce after 10 years, it has been falling apart after 5. Trully, if your heart isn't in it, you might not want to spend your "Golden" years on something you or him is unhappy ... (read in full...)

I am scared of my wife

Q.   I got introduced to my wife on the phone 2yrs 4mths ago.We instantly took to each other.I was in Africa and she in Europe.We kept communicating on a regular basis.I actually proposed to her over the phone after 4 weeks of talking.I look back now and ...

A.   8 February 2009: Wow my friend you are in a very sticky situation, well there is no complete answer to give you to do, but I can make some suggestions, 1) ignore her in her times like that 2) leave the house when she acts like that, it will make her self conscious ... (read in full...)

I had sex with the ex to mess with her head!

Q.   Split up with my ex girlfrnd of 5 years last year. I always fancied her, and because i was young i put her on a pedastal and chased her for ages, she finaly gave me a shot and we were happy at first. I got a house and we lived 2gether for a year. ...

A.   8 February 2009: If you lose her, you deserve it....no matter which way you look at it you cheated. You doodled in the wordliness of promescuity, and you screwed up. If she was your soul mate you wouldn't have cheated. Your soul mate is the one you will be with ... (read in full...)

Dry sex..no possibility of pregnancy right?

Q.   I had dry sex with my b/f naked about a week or so. Accidently, he ejaculated when he was rubbing his penis onto my vagina. He kinda tried to insert, but did not insert it completely and he took it off immediately. (btw, I'm virgin so it didn't fit ...

A.   8 February 2009: Oh yeah, and just think of all that problems that come along with having sex. You than have to worry about getting pregnant, catching an std, birth control (that will make you gan weight....not attractive) always making sure you have protection for ... (read in full...)

Dry sex..no possibility of pregnancy right?

Q.   I had dry sex with my b/f naked about a week or so. Accidently, he ejaculated when he was rubbing his penis onto my vagina. He kinda tried to insert, but did not insert it completely and he took it off immediately. (btw, I'm virgin so it didn't fit ...

A.   8 February 2009: All I want to say is don't do it! Ever again, or come close to it! I lost my virginity April 4th 2008, and I still regret it to this day! I am 19 now, I did it when I was 18. I cried for about 2 months over it. And I as in love and everything. But ... (read in full...)

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