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female
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writes:Hi, I have a problem with my fiancéenew friend. He started a new job in November and he met this guy hiscolleague who always wants to hang outwith him. Now I met the guy and he is abit of a loner... But he is very annoyingand rude and always interupts- which isoviously why he has no mates. My bfinvited him out with us for a day and notonly did we have to do what he wantedhe has a hygiene problem!My bf is very kind hearted and takes pityon him. So I hav now started makingexcuses not to hang out with him. Mybf knows my feelings but finds it funny! Help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 February 2010):
 You should be able to tell your b/f about his new friend without any bias or prejudices and he would make sure that your wish will be respected.
Maybe , it is only once in a blue moon.If he is sensitive enough he should sense your discomfort and won't invite him out again.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (27 February 2010):
 You need to be honest with your bf and tell him that you don't like this guy, but its really up to your bf if he wants to hang out with this guy. He needs to understand that you two need time to yourself. Just be honest and don't be too hard on that other guy, then your bf should know he has to make an effort to do something about it.
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