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writes:I have this girl and she's really wonderful in every way. Just an issue is that I am NOT sure but I wonder if she's cheating I really doubt it because she's never like that. It makes me jealous when people go all over her and call her "my mistress" and "oh baby" and "come on hun lets go." it kind of gives me an uneasy feeling. of course I myself think I am being really really insane over something so childish. But I am not sure. I don't want to jump to conclusion. I'm ready for the worst though. She is wonderful and alot more so I don't want to lose her. She forgave me for my mistakes two times. I will not make any more mistakes. Can someone help me out? Am i just being a little freaked out over nothing or do you think that she maybe...
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 I second that..you can't control what people say to your girlfriend. Hun is a common term, there are people I know that call everyone "hun".."Baby" again a common term, maybe not as widely used as "hun" but nonetheless still used in present times. "My mistress" is strange, don't have an explanation for that one.
Just because people call her by those names, it doesn't suggest she's cheating..
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 October 2010):
Realistically, this is your problem and not hers. If it was her saying those things, then maybe there would be a problem. But you can't help her being spoken to by other people. I suspect this is related to the fact that you made mistakes. Those who make mistakes are prone to then throwing wild allegations, getting jealous and such.
There is no evidence at all to suggest that your girlfriend is up to no good. And you need to get this under control. She's unlikely to give a third chance to you.
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