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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I wrote you because i was having trouble letting go of the man who dumped me for his baby momma.I had just gotten out of a bad relationship before the baby momma thing. Now the ex before the baby momma has asked me to maybe try again. I am really not ready or sure so i just told him that we could just see how things go until the end of the year. to say the truth i love him but not in that way anymore so i keep hanging on thinking it will change. I left my country to start over somewhere else and there is this guy from my home who emails me and we have been in touch for a month now. I like him alot but i'm scared because now i am so confused and am worried that he may dump me like the baby momma one. Then there is the ex who and his baby momma who says they lost the baby now,So to make this simple, i have a guy who likes me but i'm afraid to embrace him coz i dont know him that well, the ex who i think is good to me and incase all these guys dump me i stay with him because i feel maybe he is the one who was destined for me, but i just dont see it and the love for him is not the same anymore and the ex who has emailed me sayin that they lost the baby.....what do i do? I am Sooooooo confused!!!:( Should i just leave all of it to play out the way its meant to be? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tinkz +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Shame sweet pea, the emotional tug of war, not lekker!
But you shouldn't be with a guy that you don't love in the way that you should be loving, it not fair on both of you, cause he needs as much love as you do! Its not fair to him and its not fair for you cause you may be missing out on the guy that will make you truly happy!
The baby momma guy, don't even bother with him! He doesn't know what he wants and whose to say he won't do it again! If you don't trust him, leave him! He doesn't deserve you anyway!
The guy destined for you will not let you down and he won't hurt you! Women have in instinct for the good guys, but prefer the bad boys! Don't give into second best because of fear!
Just remember the man worth your tears, will never make you cry!
Don't make decions with confusion you either know, i want this man, or you tell him sorry but i'm over it!
If you know what you want the right man will find you!
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