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writes:okay,so im 17 and i have this huge problem.1-i had a boyfriend...we dated for about a year but during this year we boke up three times and ended up getting back together...i was crazyy about him.oh,and the times we broke up...he actually broke up with me because he had problems with his grades and parents.so now we're back together again for the 4th time.2-when we were not together the last time we broke up...i started to be friends with my bestfriend's ex and we actually started to like eachother but i couldn't betray my bestfriend for a guy...but still i can't deny that there was a connection between us but she doesn't know about it.3-during the same time,i met this other guy,who's his bestfriend(the bestfriend's ex)and i reallyyyy liked him...i knew he liked me too but then he we just stopped talking4-now am back with my boyfriend...the guy started to talk to me again!and my bestfriend's ex also likes me now...and im not sure about who i actually like!but i feel like whatever decision i make...someone is gonna get hurt!either my bestfriend...the guy who is also the ex's bestfriend...or my boyfriend!i love my boyfriend...but i dont want him to hurt me again and dump me!and i dont wanna lose the two other guys!help!
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reader, celestial +, writes (21 June 2010):
Honey, you are lusting over there guys, it isn't love, love takes time to form, at least 2-3 years. You don't need them, you only need yourself. So, take some time away with only yourself and make a decision.
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