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anonymous
writes:This is going to sound super stupid but please please bear with me,.I am in a relationship that isnt really a relationship. I love him and I know he loves me we were friends then lovers but never an "item" his life is messed up right now and he is confused and battling drug addiction but I know he can get better.But I dont know if I can wait and I want more and he cant man up. Other men are asking me out and I dont know what to do or say.I want this man he feels right for me and I want to help him but...Maybe I wont even be able to.Should I ask him if he cares that I date other guys or just go on.Please advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2012): If you're having doubts about whether or not you can hang on for this guy to sort his problems out, then you obviously don't want things to develop between you two as much as you say, to be honest.
If you REALLY knew what you wanted, and that IS him, then you would know what you MUST do to make sure you achieve what you aim for, and let NOTHING else sidetrack you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2012): Well it looks like this man has alot on his plate right now..My suggestion is for its best to stay friends for now. If you really want to get this guy to better himself be a friend for him. He is in no condition to take on a romantic relationship with anyone. If you really love him then follow your heart and wait as long as you can. The other guys asking you on dates well you're single and it wouldnt hurt to go on a date its to really test your love for this guy. Lets say you do go on dates but if you dont feel that connection then it might be that you probably are ment with your friend. Have faith and dont over think things. I know you're smart enough to do whats right, Like i said for now his priorty is to get sober for good then he will be strong enough to take on a serious relationshipGood luck!
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