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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I just discovered this website and I thought I might just give it a try. There's a boy in my school that I really really really like, I have liked him for 5 months now. Yet still I have never really had the guts to go up to him and talk to him. I am just way too scared and too shy. I wish I could talk to him because by now I really think it is time to, but I don't really see any way to do it. We don't have the same circle of friends or any other way to be connected. What do I do? Please help! Thank you very much
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reader, freecupid  +, writes (14 June 2013):
What does telling him do? What do you want? A relationship? Him to merely acknowledge your existence?When you know what you want out of your declaration, only then you can figure out whether or not it's worth going to tell your feelings...otherwise, at your age...what's the point? Serious relationships are unlikely to happen...but unless your chasing a dream, and hoping something might manifest from sharing your feelings...then go right ahead.Once you share your feelings however, just be aware that they'll no longer be just your feelings. Other people might know, so take care to figure out if you're okay with that.Weigh up the pros and cons basically. Life is nothing like the movies after all.
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