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I don't get it. If he likes me, then why doesn't he return my calls or messages?

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Question - (10 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *yana_Maisha writes:

An old friend of mine (I'm 17), "Brian" (who's 19), has been acting strange lately.

I've known him since I was 8,he was my first kiss,we used to be best buds until middle school rolled around and we drifted in and out of eachothers lives.

We reconnected this year after almost a full 12 months of no contact, and we've hung out a few times. We always seem to have a good time.

Now enter the weird part.He never replies my phone calls or Myspace messages,and usually I'm the one who suggests hanging out,though he did invite me to a church concert once.But then when I go to the mall where he works and pass by him, he'll call me over and talk and be all friendly with me, and when we're alone, he lays right next to me on my bed and even play wrestles with me.

I don't get it. If he likes me, then why doesn't he return my calls or messages?

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A female reader, MorganRenee United States +, writes (10 August 2008):

MorganRenee agony auntHe may not be a message or phone person...most guys arent...just dont call too much and maybe he'll turn around...you can keep suggesting hanging out just not too much...dont take it too personally guys to a lot of things that they dont really think about. lolz and women that dont really understand this can drive them away or get hurt.

***Missy***

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008):

Just to make a long story short never call a boy too much it gets annoying to them, guys by nature are supposed to be the chasers, it sounds to me like you have a crush on him and maybe its really obvious, relax sweety give him space he'll talk to you when he's ready, but for now take it easy and DON'T AND I REPEAT DON'T call or text or email etc.

Okie dokie hope this helps.

Mrs.C2b ; )

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