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*razylady07
writes:I do not want to have sex with my husband. We have been married for 7 years. I actually dread it. I wait until he is asleep b4 i go to bed and try to get up b4 him. The sex is good, he always waits for me so we can climax together. What am I going to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, crazylady07 +, writes (7 May 2007):
crazylady07 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I am sure that I do love him I just not sure I know how to show it anymore. In response to an answer, I thought of the medical situation since I saw the episode on Grey's Anatomy and a guy on there had a similair situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): I had a similar problem to yours, although I loved my husband I just didn't want to have sex with him and a friend of mine made a suggestion which worked for me. But before I tell what this was I want to ask yourself one question, do you still love your husband? If the answer is no then you do not need to read any further,
If the answer is yes the read on................ my friend suggested that I take a herbal supplement containing siberian ginseng root, admittedly I was a bit dubious of this but not having anything to loose I tried it, i purchased the supplement from my herbal shop and within a week my sex drive increased drimatically. You would not beleive the effect that it has had on my sex life, honestly, I went from begrudingly having sex once or twice a month the actually instigating it 3 or 4 times a week, I can't get enough of my husband and as a result of it my relatonship with him has improved ten-fold. If you want your marriage to work in every department what have you got to loose?
Good luck and good sex xx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 May 2007):
 I think you need to get some professional counseling, honey. That is if sex is the only problem in your marriage. If you love your husband then get that counseling ASAP. Sometimes the lack of a sex drive is the symptom of another seemingly unrelated problem.
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