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writes: hi, I'm really confused at the moment. I've got a long problem:a while ago my friend came over for a sleepover. We were discussng what it would be like to kiss a girl and I leaned over and kissed her. I pulled away straight away but she pulled me back and we started kissing some more. One thing led to another and then we were naked. We did loads of stuff (I won't go into detail) and I really enjoyed it. We did it a few times she moved away a few weeks later she moved away and I lost her number-so I haven't spoken to her since but now I think about her all the time (I feel myself and masturbate whilst thinking about her).after all this I kinda know I'm a lesbian, but I've never had sex with a guy so I don't know for sure. I'm only 12 by the way)I don't really know how you can help, but any advice is really welcomethanx
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (16 March 2008):
Ok mate the exact same thing happened to me when I was 9 or 10. Had a sleep over her place and she wanted me to kiss her with my tongue in her mouth and my finger inside her. I felt really uncomfortable but she forced me and said if you don't do it you can walk home in the dark. I was scared of the dark and what my father would do to me if I came back in the middle of the night so I tried to stay away from her in the house. Her parents had gone out to dinner and left us three kids at home alone with no dinner. When I went to sleep she jumped in the bed with me all night playing with me and I just felt so frightened. I found out in the morning that her dad was abusing her pretty constantly and when I tried to tell the mother what had happened she looked at me as though she knew what I was going to say and told me to go outside. She had naked pictures of her father with an erect penis she showed me and I just thought this family is strange. To cut a long story short I never told my story for 20 years but yeah I struggled with my sexuality for years. I love guys totally but have had times where I have thought about the other side. Do not be like me and masturbate in your room cause this girl has introduced you to sex too early. Tell your mum. This girl moved away about a month after it happened and her father just used to creep me out. It was his eyes so cold and penetrating. It was like you were made of glass and he was looking through you. So mate tell your mum tell your teacher tell please. You just might be saving her from abuse. Please don't wait 20 years like I did mate. Speak out now.
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reader, yeahsureyoubetcha  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 At your age identifying with a girl is natural and developmentally correct. In time you may be attracted to guys as well or instead of girls.
I wouldn't worry too much that you are a lesbian. You have lots of time to figure that out.
Try to find you friend, Google her dads name and where they moved see if you can find a phone number and don't worry. You are normal.
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