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41-50,
*zzy
writes:ive been married for two years to a soilder. i cheated on him and confessed all to him about 2 months ago.We said that we would put it behind us and move on. but all we do now is fight all the time day an night. we have tried talking but we just cant communicate on anything what do u think is the next step?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): Has he ever cheated on you? When he was away maybe? I would ask him about that first. People get lonely, and your husband being a soldier I assume he was gone a lot. I agree with the other answer, go get some counseling. Do you regret cheating on him? Are you prepared to be 100% faithful from now on? If the answer is no, then maybe you should think about ending the relationship. If the answer is yes, then all you can do is be a good wife and go seek help as well.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Hi Azzy,
It is obviously the hurt is still there. Even though u have agreed to put it all behind you it is not easy to actually do that in practise. What i can advise u do is seek counselling, which i'm pretty sure your husband will agree to. since I do believe he wants the marriage to work as much as you do if he was willing to put it all behind him.
Goodluck
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