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writes: Ok here goes!I need some advice about what I should do in the current relationship that I'm in. I've been with my boyfriend for about 16 months now, I would say things are good, but nothing special, were both happy I guess. He's been treated badly in the past so tends to prejudge women and to a certain extent he is right...My question is should I go? I cheated on him recently which I confessed to, I know I did wrong so it was only right for me to face my demon's. We didn't speak for a few weeks (we live together) but then things slowly got back to normal.However I feel like I want out, when we argue there pretty fiery, he has quite a temper but I am a content person so I can take the fact he has a 'hot head' Everytime I pack my things to go, I keep coming back! It's so hard for me to just leave, I feel like I need to as we argue alot, we never go out and there is no passion left. But I love this guy, he's so nice and a decent person which you don't find many of!He always brings up the fact that I cheated and I always bring up the fact that we don't act like a couple. I do love him but i'm just so confused on what I should do! I know there is a trust issue now, but we had more problems before that, What do you guys think I should do? You think leaving for a while may make us both realise whether we want each other?I am just so confused about this, I have learned something though leaving someone you love is so hard! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2006): It's time for you to leave. Some wounds just don't heal all the way. As the saying goes, time will give you two perspective.
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