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writes:I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now.. i am not happy with her.. i caught her red handed cheating on me but she always tries to convince me in a fashion that i was wrong... i dont trust her any more... i really wanted to break up with her but am not able to do it.... it hurts me...i love her... she wont change for me.... am really pissed...I need ur help... please advise Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): The best thing you could do become even with her by going out with some female friends or co-workers since she was messing around with other guys in the beginning.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 February 2010):
You know what you saw. And if she is lying, she's not worth one second more of your time, because it means she hasn't accepted she has done wrong and will do it again. You can do better that this.
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (14 February 2010):
 If you caught her red handed how can she convince you your wrong?
You know what you saw.
The only way you can move forward from this is for her to admit everything. If/when everything is out in the open you can both sit down & talk things through.
Then you can both decide where to go from there.
Nobody deserves to be cheated on. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010): you need to build up to talking to her and tell her how u feel if you love her the way you do its worth a try. And you need to find out if she loves you if so build it make strong what once had if not move on best of luck and dont worrie to much life will continue with or with out her
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