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anonymous
writes:I'm so unsure about what to do about this, if anything. If any of you could give me some advice, I'd be much appreciated.Anyway, I've lately been having strong feelings about my ex. We dated 7 years ago, and although it was for less than a year, it was a very special time and we also lost our virginity to each other. We are close and extremely good friends to this very day, and also form the foundation for our close circle of friends who wouldn't have met if we hadn't have dated.I've always felt strongly about her for the past 7 years, but never have said anything and have concentrated on our friendship rather than pursue anything more romantic, and I've never acted discourageable of her and other people. Although we've both had a series of girlfriends/boyfriends and romantic engagements over the years, I realise I still have feelings for her.We've grown up a lot during the years, and I feel that we're a lot more mentally mature than we were when we were only 16.. we're both 23 now. What I guess I'm afraid of is ruining a friendship, but I do care about her a lot. Should I say something? Is there any way I might be able to go about it? I don't know.. Any advice would be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): I would say yes say something.I dont think you can live the rest of your life thinking "if only".As hard as it is bite the bullet and say "I cant get over what happened between us and I need to know if there is any chance we could get back together again"How do you know she hasnt been feeling the same way?Go for it!!
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