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I can't tell if he likes me or is just really friendly...

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Question - (30 April 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2006)
A female , *illy1983 writes:

I like a guy at the Territorial Army unit i belong to he is playful and picks on me (in a funny way) does he like me or just being friendly

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A female reader, Tilly1983 +, writes (30 May 2006):

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Tilly1983 agony auntwell not been around much but here is an update! Rob is still as confusing as ever, at my party he kept sending me kisses in a text and when i asked why he said just because! god why are men so confusing!

Oh the big news is i told him i liked him he replied that he really likes me but he has a gf and that things would be different if he was single, which just makes me wonder why does he still pick on me and send me thos msgs!!!!

Guys help me out

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A female reader, Tilly1983 +, writes (8 May 2006):

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Tilly1983 agony auntWell i hope you are right Ryder, i will keep you posted, il see him tues so im gonna play it cool for the moment and just wait and see what he does, iv just come back from an army wkend and i have damaged my shoulder might get him to ort it out for me haha

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A male reader, Ryder  +, writes (8 May 2006):

Ryder agony auntSounds like he got a little bit jelous when you were resting your head on the other guys shoulder, i think that he is interested in getting to know you especially that he told your friend that he would love to go !

I think this could turn out great :D

Just try getting alone and watch magic do its miracles ;)

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A female reader, Tilly1983 +, writes (7 May 2006):

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Tilly1983 agony auntIv asked Rob (the army guy) to my joint birthday party myself and my mate both texted him asking him to come, he replied to me if im lucky he will be there, but he told my mate Gems he would love to go!!! Also if were at the TA unit i try not to speak to him as i blush to much lol, but if i dont he will text me asking how i am the next day, complementing me on my cool new t-shirt and whilst i was at the unit i got wierd looks from him as i was resting my head on another guys shoulder!!!! Im very confused i just cant work out his behavour in a group i guess we do look at each other alot and he doesnt act like he does with me with other girls, grrrr Help if you can work out what he is playing at lol

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A male reader, Ryder  +, writes (6 May 2006):

Ryder agony auntHey tilly1983,

If he picks on you like you said in the funny way that means 2 things:

1. Hes flirting with you, he wants to make it obvious that hes interested in you or that he wants to chat or do something but he just doesn't know how so he runs to the typical move.. Teasing and picking :P

2. Hes being friendly like you stated but then again you can determine the difference between a the friendly picking or the flirty/interested picking.

The best thing you can do is make some tests to lure him into showing to you whether he does have feelings towards you or not. A couple of examples:

1. When you both are with a group and they all want to do something tell them your not go ahead with it and stay behind or do something else cause your tired and make sure he sees you and hears you.

**His positive response should be;

Do you want me to stay with you?

Why not please come !

If he does show ore attention than the group that shows he defiantely cares more than everyone else but this can mean your very special to him or hes in love with you.

2. This is the ultimate test.. Somehow get the 2 of you in a romantic place but dont show it means anything if he does like you then when the 2 of you sit down and get in the mood his heart with thump and he will be in an emotional moment where if you place eye contact im sure you will defianatly determine his position in this relationship just from his looks.

Good luck with this, and it would mean alot to me if you tell me how it goes :D

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