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I cant stop lovin someone I shouldnt?? (HELP!)

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Question - (3 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *omo4eva77 writes:

Well in front of my house there is a construction site and lots of men work there. There is this one guy who is very good looking, hot, cute. He isnt the hottest guy ever but b/c im so used to him i really like him. And ever since we saw each other we keep looking at each other, he laughs when i laugh, and im just crazy for him. Now i cant forget about him for a second but i want to. i need help. btw im 14 and he is like 24 or soo. but im not soo sure. and i just cant move on because i see him every day and i really really like him.

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A female reader, momo4eva77 United States +, writes (4 September 2009):

momo4eva77 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thnx i waz thinkin da samethin nd lol to the anonymous writer. but i hope it workz cuz he'll stil b here 4 a while :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009):

Hey, I've had a similiar crush, but I managed to get over it somewhat. I'd really advise that you read my article on it; I hope it helps:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-your-crush-on-an.html

Best of luck! :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009):

Go for it! You're a child and he's an adult. Let your parents find out, he'll get arrested, you'll try to SWEAR it wasn't rape, the police will tell your parents that it doesn't matter - you're a minor and he's a child molester. He'll get a court appointed attorney, who's an idiot, he'll plead trying to get a lesser sentence, go to prison, get raped repeatedly... and then get paroled in about 10 years. He'll have to live in a half-way house, and as a felon will not be able to get a decent job, and as a convicted sex offender will not be able to live in most places, and he'll live a miserable rest of his life...

Or, you could forget about it and find a 13 year old to hang out with...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009):

Hey. I can relate to you coz I have a similar problem. Reality is for you that you've pretty much said yourself there's no point in you liking this guy. You could just go with it and get over it in time, like me. Try seeing him in a different light. If you're desperate then maybe think about his negative points although I think it's a bit mean trying to repress your feelings. Don't worry about it. It'll pass with time if you're not meant to be. Good luck. X

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