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I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. Totally in love.

How can I last longer in bed?

Q.   How do i keep from ejaculating so quickly during sexual intercourse?...

A.   15 December 2008: You could masterbate before intercourse. You can also can condoms by durex with a special fluid at the end that numbs your penis slightly to help you last longer :)... (read in full...)

Does he like me but not realize it

Q.   Yes, this is the same old story. I really like my guy friend tom. I think we would be great together, but i can't be sure because i don't know everything about him. I'd like the opportunity to find out. However, he has a girlfriend, Sam....

A.   15 December 2008: Maybe you could ask him out for dinner as a break from work or something and he could say to his girlfriend that it's 'work related' so there's no suspicions. Are you sure that Toms girlfriend is comfortable with him putting his arm around you.... (read in full...)

Am I thinking too much? Or we are simply over?

Q.   Hi all. We haven't meet each other after a fight 3 weeks ago. Few days after the fight, I called her, she said it is over. When we met online, she is there talking to me. It isn't as much as before but from her saying, am still her bf. 2 we...

A.   15 December 2008: I think that in the time after the fight that you haven't seen each other she's been thinking about your relationship and that it just won't work which is why she's ended in. Maybe the reason she hasn't been sleeping and occupying herself is because ... (read in full...)

Is this a foolish thing to do, appropriate, selfish or what?

Q.   About August of last year I developed a crush on a friend in one of my classes. I've kept it quiet. January of this year she asked me if I liked her. I replied that I did. She informed me that she didn't feel the same way and wanted to continue ...

A.   15 December 2008: I personally don't think this is selfish, she should understand if she values your friendship a lot. A friend who liked me for a while stopped talking to me for a while because he said he needed some time and we've recently started talking again and ... (read in full...)

Her boyfriend doesn't know she has a baby. Should she tell him?

Q.   Have a friend of mine, who has been dating a guy for the past one year. My friend has a baby but she is afraid to tell her boyfriend because it might ruin their relationship please give any suggestions to help....

A.   15 December 2008: Having a child is a very big thing to keep from someone, it's also very risky to lie about something like this. I think she really should tell him, if she tells the truth then he should understand if he's a decent boyfriend. If she's afraid to tell ... (read in full...)

I can't squirt now!

Q.   hi i have a quick question about female ejaculation. i am 18 and used to be able to 'squirt' and i did it once for my now ex boyfriend and his reaction was that of disgust even tho he said he thought it was hot, he said he didnt expect anywhere...

A.   15 December 2008: This reminds me of the time my boyfriend couldn't get an erection for a while because he was thinking too much and when he'd go soft because he'd be thinking about how annoying putting the condom on was. I think you're either thinking to much about ... (read in full...)

Isn't what he's done to me cheating?

Q.   I'm writing because my head is so confused I don't know what is right or wrong any more. I've been with a guy now for 4 years living together and he's been fathering my 2 children, don't get me wrong he's a nice guy, good father to them but I've ...

A.   15 December 2008: This sounds like my Mum and my Step-dad. A while ago we were about to type in a website and instead a dating website address came up which he'd obviously previously been on. We looked on his home page and he had uploaded his picture and everything ... (read in full...)

Is it appropiate for a guy who has a girlfriend to tell other girls he thinks they are cute?

Q.   Is it appropiate for a guy who has a girlfriend to tell other girls he thinks they are cute and so on? It really hurts my feelings when my bf does this. I know it doesnt mean he is necessarily cheating on me, and in fact i dont think he is at a...

A.   15 December 2008: Personally, I don't think it's appropriate, I wouldn't like my boyfriend saying that to other girls unless they were related. I think it sends the wrong message especially when he has a girlfriend. I understand how you're feeling, I think I'd feel... (read in full...)

If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?

Q.   Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any o...

A.   15 December 2008: Don't be embarrassed about asking this question, a lot of people question this at such a young age. I'm assuming you're young, right? You can only get pregnant if the sperm enters your vagina. This can happen from things such as; sex without a ... (read in full...)

Too depressed to care

Q.   i feel there is no point in me trying to change.i am too depressed to hurt to bothar.i feel there is no point in me like any guy because any guy in all my years has rejected.torn my heart out it has been done to many times i don,t think i can ...

A.   15 December 2008: I can tell that you are very insecure about yourself and that isn't going to help you at all. Being confident about yourself can be very attractive to some men. Don't feel downhearted just because you haven't been kissed, who cares about what age ... (read in full...)

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