| A
male
,
anonymous
writes: i am newly married just week before. and my partner have a problem regarding intercourse. as if she got her vaginal way smaller, so that i cant get in. and she is complaining pain when i try. kindly advise me.thanksvictor
View related questions:
vagina Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): yes, i got what's up your problem see, don't be nervers for the first time for the starting it looks like this is smaller and harder but slowly her pain will be release, it will be bigger than now as the days keep going through it you will later find comfortable..
A
reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2006): One question: are u sure your wife really really love u?
I had the same situation, i WAS a virgin when I was with my ex-bf for almost 3 years, he tried to get inside many times but failed anyway. I complained pain and every time he had to stop because it really hurt.
I like him but I do not love that guy that much. So we broke up and moved on with my second bf whom I am crazy about. It is very easy for the second bf-I just feel the amazing part of virgin's body is it can open up completely for true love, otherwise, it is really difficult-
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2006): Vaginism, that what she has. It is a fear of sex/penetration so she tenses up and it will be painful for her when you try to go inside her so to speak. She needs to go to a doctor who will help her relax and use techniques and please have patience with her because it could take time for her to be comfortable about having sex. Good luck.
...............................
A
female
reader, Hunny Bunny +, writes (7 April 2006):
Have you tried usein a lubricant, such as ky jelly. This might help it along a bit. Or maybe try usin 1 finger at first an work you way up to 2 possible 3. Then wen you have intercourse her vagine would have been used to having bein opend that little bit wider. Also try spending a bit more time on getting her aroused may help.
Good luck honey =)
...............................
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 April 2006):
 Assuming that your wife is a virgin, it could be the hymen in the vaginal canal is too tough to break with normal intercourse. Sometimes a doctor has to intervene. Ask her to make an appointment with her doctor. This is a common phenomenon and can easily rectified. Good luck.
...............................
|
