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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey there, i need your advice and help! i met this guy in september last year, and were in the same college course, and i really like him, and he told me that he likes me too, but when i sort of asked him out he said "its not that i dont want to go out with you, its just i dont want to ruin our friendship or our course, lets be really good friends" now its hard because im so insanely jealous of this girl who already has a boyfriend who seems to keep his attention and i can talk to him like i was able to before. he wont talk to me unless he needs to. i really like him after 5 months of knowing him i cant get over him at all! what shall i do? please help thanks i apprieciate it so much xxx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (14 March 2007):
 What he was telling you was he likes you as a friend but that's it! He's with someone else now and she's taking all his interest now. You need to move on. Now you can sit there dreaming about him and feeling miserable which is totally negative... or you can tell yourself it's HIS loss he doesn't know what he's missing wanting to date a wonderful person like yourself!
Get out there, have fun with your friends, this guy isn't worth it love. He very tactfully told you he wasn't interested so don't waste your time or emotions on him. There are lots of other guys out there who are far more deserving of your attention and who are fun to be with, that you can laugh and have a great time with! Don't waste another minute on this guy, he really isn't worth it!
Eve
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