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male
age
30-35,
*bstewart1
writes:Okay, I've been with this girl for about 4 months and we just recently got to the sex stage. The problem is, I am erect or can get an erection up until we get naked, then it just goes away. I can get erections around her and when I'm alone, it's just when we get naked it goes away. I love her and find her VERY physically attractive, and I'm not self-concious about my body. This has happened now about 4 times. We managed it once, so I'm just confused and want to know why I can't get up and show her physical love! She says everything is okay, and that she can wait till I'm cured, but I want to be able to make love to her. I've never had this problem in the past. Someone PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 I think you're letting your nerves get the best of you! You say you're not self conscious about your body, but guys frequently DO put pressure on themselves about their performance and subconsciously worry that their penis won't be large enough, or too large, or wondering how you'll compare to other guys she's been with and the more you stress, the more your willy is affected. Try to relax and just focus on simple things, like the texture of her skin, the way her hair smalls, count the freckles on her back, something to take the pressure off yourself, and then just let things happen naturally. xox
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