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writes:I recently started "seeing" a man I used have feelings for. Now I can't figure out what he wants. He says he is looking for a serious relationship, but I'm afraid he's just spending time with me until he finds what he's looking for. When we are together he is all sweet and acts like he wants more, but he doesn't return my calls and it's always on his terms. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): I know I should set the ground rules, I just seem to "lose myself" around him. He says he wants a relationship, I'm just not sure he wants one with ME
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reader, heatherrrrrrr +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Definitely ask him outright if he wants a future with you. If he waffles, he may not be sure yet. So keep your options open. Go on a few dates with other guys. Keep it light.
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reader, Shipwreckd +, writes (30 July 2008):
 Confront. Ask him what's up and what he wants. Every relationship should have properly defined boundaries. Maybe it's time you found out where yours are at with him?
Good luck!
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