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I can't fall in love?

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Question - (20 June 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2010)
A female Philippines age 36-40, *eizy writes:

Hi! I want to have a boyfriend but why I can't fall in love. How to fall in love with a person?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010):

It's called falling in love because you don't mean to, you just do. Try meeting a lot of new people, and mingle as much as possible. But you can't force yourself. (:

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (20 June 2010):

person12345 agony auntHow would you know you can't fall in love if you don't have a boyfriend/partner? It takes months to TRULY fall in love (and not just be infatuated).

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A female reader, TailsYouLose United States +, writes (20 June 2010):

TailsYouLose agony auntWell you don't have to fall in love to be seeing someone... usually it works the other way around, actually. Typically, you have to really get to know someone before falling in love with them. I've only really loved two of my boyfriends, and those were the two I stayed with the longest and spent the most time with. I think that's probably why there are so many stories of people falling in love with their friends, you know?

Just try to find someone you have a lot in common with and see if they'd be interested in going on a date. If you guys get along, the love will come later.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2010):

You just have to get out there and meet men. There is no manual to falling in love. It just happens when you meet someone and get to know them. If you want a boyfriend, you need to be out there meeting men.

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