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writes:hey hi..my name is annie.i am 24 yrs old..now in 2004 when i was 18 i got into a steady relationship that lasted till 2007 august..we broke up because my then boyfriend could never trust me on any topics..later i moved out and agin got into a relationsjip with another wonderful guy in 2009.in between my ex boyfriend and i used 2 talk with each other on phone.but we had same mentality issues so i never had thought him to return in my life.now my ex boyfriend in the meanwhile has only and only loved me in these years and has remained single throughout and has never thought of marrying any other girl than me. now last december i somehow thought to meet him up again for one last time and we met again.but i suddenly start to feel him and want to marry him..my present boyfriend loves me but just usually.. not so hardcore..he trusts me but whenever we come up on some serious topic he just stops the discussion..my ex and i are planning for marriage but my ex wants me never to talk with my present. and i cant stop that because my present boyfriend was my biggest support when i was alone. also my ex has waited for me long and deserves me..we know each other well but i cant accept the condition he has set for me..i cant chose between both.please help me.
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reader, jacek  +, writes (5 April 2010):
I can't choose between them! - but You have to!On the one hand, Ex. They say "old love dies hard".. But still, remeber that he broke up with U once. The question is do U relly believe that he changed, is he a new parson, because U going to spend rest of your life with him. Or maybe he left U to try with somebody else, and it didn't work out. Who knows?On the other hand Your Bf, who can't specify his feelings. He is your biggest support, and as I understand, U can always count on him. You should press him, he must answer is this relationship for real or just for fun. Whatever you do, whoever you chose, U should listen to your heart, your feelings, at stake is your future. Its may be selfish but in this case think about yourself:) Relly! They both make some mistakes, and you have right to be happy. I am getting married for four months:), and i have no doubts. So if you have one, remeber that there is third option: none of them:PBSJack
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