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anonymous
writes:I've just found an amazing partner who's local to me. We're very open and communicate well. Problem is, she has a blood fettish, and is into biting my neck and having me perform oral on her on her period, as well as biting my lips, having me bite hers and biting necks. It's a pretty big fantasy for her, but as far as I know I don't share it. I'm pretty new to relationships, and there's a big part of me that is scared she'll find her interest wandering because I can't be as rough as she needs, and I'm not into blood and vampirism. Any advice out there for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have talked to her about it. She has told me that she's willing to give it up for me. Thing is I have problems letting people do that. I know I shouldn't, and if she's willing everything should be fine but I just feel horrible. She knows all this, I wanted to get some more opinions.
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reader, bluntasaspoon  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 well for starters ewwwwwwwww
but ne way u 2 communicate and ur not intoit so why are u asking us? and not telling her?
i know it might sound bad but maybe she has an iron deficiency????? i mean i like the neck biting (well actually i love it) and at one point all i wanted was raw meat (pregnancy craving) so i told my doc about it and he gave me shed loads of iron tablets. i am still into the neck biting but not into the raw meat any more
hope this helps
bluntasaspoon x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe tells me she's always has thoughts about it. She got into it when her first partner performed oral on her during her period. She knows about the safe ways of taking blood. Her first partner and her were both into it. They both had thoughts about it, both liked meat to be made very rare and such things. She's not the type to be involved in any sort of cult or anything crazy like that. She happens to like the taste of blood.
The thing I would like to know is what should I do about it? I want her to be happy. She tells me she can control it, but I don't believe it's fair to ask her to do that. She says she can just write on anonymous boards about it, but again I don't think it's fair to give up part of herself for me, when I haven't done the same and she hasn't asked me to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): HiYou sound very wise and i am sure this girl is quite different to some, such as if she is gothic in dress etc which is wonderful. This is very interesting However you should draw the Line at the blood and biting, it is not healthy and does verge on satanic. You may not think so but fetishes like this can end up as very dangerous games, two teenagers in my town were the same and one murdered the other in a vampire ritual. May sound far fetched to you.. but it was very real to them and their family,. Personally i think she is ridiculous and needs help....i too am very different! but to want to draw blood from someones neck is pathetic and you should inform her of this...will she bite her children when she becomes a mother? Black arts are not to be dabbled in. You are probably infatuated by her strangeness, i would actually be worried about her strange ways not impressed. You can find many, many, UNUSUAL EXCITING girls with MORE to offer than biting people and tasting blood. I think she is an idiot and you should stay clear unless she grows out of this childish vampire game...if she wants to be involved in the dark arts and play at been a dark angel...arrange to take her to prison's where other dark angels have ended up...and see if she feels cool then wanting to draw blood.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): How come you say she's amazing? Think about that. You may want a relationship and a girlfriend, but it should never be at the expense of being true to you. Evn if you do all these tghings to please her and convince yourself you should be doing more, you'll end up miserable in the long run A relationship goes both ways not just you always putting out. I'm sure a lot of people would agree that this girlfriend of yours needs to be the one to make an effort to put aside these extreme fetishes. A big partr of a relationship relates not only to sex but to love and tenderness. Otherwise she'd be better off visiting sex parlours to act out these fantasies and not waste your time. Biting and Oral sex on her period are also not safe thing for you to be ritualistically doing. She may not tell you but these are . , because you obviously are being misled to belive that these are fetish sexual acts when they are forms of satanic rituals. Run and don't look back. pray aswell.
Good luck and God Bless.
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