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writes:I can not find love, Is this Only me? i was in love very much with someone 10yrs ago, but he said me cant be together with me.After that.. for 8yrs i met many guys but never feel something special for them..2yrs ago i met a guy, he likes me so im in relationship with him now.But i dont feel happy.. I just love him ONLY 1%..i really not feel happy.I want to get marry for love oneday..but cant love someone heartily..My friends get bf soon and love them alot! But im not.Is this only me?? Usually ppl can find love for 10yrs,if meet many ppl?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Justhelpin  +, writes (18 January 2011):
Get out there! Join clubs and sports!! Get active and start enjoying life and you really need to stop looking so hard! This is the only way it will happen! Be happy - positiveness is attractive
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): Well first things first if your not happy in the relationship then I say get out of it, otherwise you are hurting him.
Also love is very hard to find, it takes some longer then others, but I like to think there is someone out there for everyone, so don't give up :)
I really hope things turn out well for you
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (18 January 2011):
You are not alone m'dear, but wouldn't you rather be happy being on your own than in a relationship that you are not 100% happy with!
For the first time since I was 16...I am now in my 40s, I am single, I have been single for nearly 3 years. Yes at first it feels a little strange, and now I feel ready to settle down with a nice man. But very often when I am alone wishing and wishing I could find a nice man, I think to myself, well this is a better option than being in a dead end relationship.
One day, when you are least expecting it, you will meet the man of your dreams. Like they say, there is someone out there for each and everyone of us.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 January 2011):
 True love is hard to find. Sometimes when we are hurt, we shut ourselves down to options that come along because we don't want to be hurt again. These emotional walls are noticable to people, even if you never tell them. Someone may not be interested in falling in love with you if you cannot feel it.
If you aren't happy in your current relationship, you should get out of it. All you're doing is preventing yourself from finding someone you can be happy with.
You're not the only one who has trouble finding love. I'm still on the search myself. I have faith that if I keep trying though, then I will find something eventually. I hope you can find someone too.
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reader, joshuaty2010 +, writes (18 January 2011):
 Just be patient. It might not be your time to found him but when he came for sure it will be for a life time.
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