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female
age
30-35,
*athleeenie
writes:This time last year i was with this guy. I was with him 7 months n then we broke up. I took it pretty hard but eventually managed to get back to my normal self. However the past month or so i keep thinking about him, at night i cant sleep. I get flash backs of when we were together.Everywhere i go seems to bring back memories of him and songs keep making me cry. He barely talks to me now, i try my best but he ignores my messages. At the weekend i txt him n he actually replied, we were talkin abit about this time last year. i said it was upsettin i miss it in a way. he said yeh i know what u mean. He told me he still cares but theres no chance of us again. I keep talking about him without realising, i spoke to one of his mates and apparently he talks about me to. His mates think he still likes me but doesnt wanna admit it. Is there anything i can try and do to get him to talk to me or meet me? i miss him so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): I felt the same about my ex. He stopped calling and answering my calls, in the end I had to admit to myself it was over. It still hurts and I still miss him but the more I contacted him, the less he wanted to know. I have left him alone now and still haven't heard from him so I guess he has moved on which we have to do aswell I suppose, as hard as that is. I think there is someone else out there who won't ignore you and will want to be with you forever and you will wonder why you were pining for your ex all this time. The loneliness is hard and sometimes painful, but it will make you much stronger in the long run. I know one day I won't ever think about my ex but at the moment I still do and he probably thinks the same but it's just not meant to be, if it was he would still be with me. You will find Mr Right and I hope to aswell. Good luck
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reader, softballplaya  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 okay well my advice for this is to call him
if he wont meet then talk to him on the phone
if this loser wants to date a 14 year old when hes 18 then thats really messed up on his part. girl dont let this loser get to you, move on and find someone who will make a good bf
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reader, Kathleeenie +, writes (19 May 2008):
Kathleeenie is verified as being by the original poster of the question I already asked him if we could meet to talk. he said he didnt think it was a good idea.
then last night this girl added me online, turns out its his new girlfriend =[
she seems rele nice and pretty...but shes 14, he's nearly 18 which i find a bit odd.
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (18 May 2008):
ask him if you can meet somewhere and juss lay the cards on the table.
tell him it would be better for the both of you, tell him its important and its something you need to do for closure. He will more than likely respond by agreeing, Find a place to meet or even talk on the phone and just basically tell him how you feel and get what you have been holding in off your chest. I know how you feel about missing someone, it hurts alot. If both of you still have feelings for one another then you both are hurting yourselves by trying to let go of something thats still holding on. This is very puzzling because its obvious that he still cares...anyways do what i said about calling him or meeting him, dont worry things will all work out. trust me
take care && good luck
if you need anything im here for you
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