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I can cum in every position but doggy-style - why not?

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Question - (18 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

He loves to make me cum and I love how hot it gets him!! I can come in every position but doggy stile, we are on a mission for me to cum that way. The other night I was so close my clit was all swelled up and I was dripping wet. I was had my chest on the bed with my ass in the air I was so close but I couldn't do it, something wasn't quite right. did anyone ever cum this way? Any tips?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (18 September 2008):

DoubleM agony auntWhile I am not a woman, I still believe that you are fortunate to so readily and easily orgasm most of the time, when many women rarely if ever experience a full climax. The switching to doggie-style as earlier mentioned may expand your experience. You do not mention oral stimulation, but cunnilingus also would likely increase your pleasure greatly - probably providing multiple orgasms. Your boyfriend could also switch back-and-forth from oral stimulation to various intercourse positions to provide you with amazing experiences.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008):

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Thanks for the advice, I have as much fear of anal penetration as a homo phobic male. I am going to try the switching positions thing but I am not sure that stimulation is the problem because I was literally sitting on the edge of a combo orgasm for like 5 minutes. I was so close but after 5 minutes I decided to give up, I stood straight up and that's when his penis exploded. I was so stimulated that I got him to play with my clit till I cummed after.

I think what was happening is "that really sensative part of my clit was rubbing against the little bit of hair on the shaft and his testicles. I told him that if he shaved his testicles I think I could cum. But he said they're impossible to shave. I kind of want to give him a boner in the shower and just shave the top little bit for him. I don't know how to tell him "all I need is just 1 little strip".

I am not some pornstar (but I feel like one when I'm with him)I never always used to cum. It took the 2 of us alot of great skill and technique to get to this point. Although I can cum, I'm actually quite picky. But we are finding that once I can cum in 1 poasion it gets easier and easier every time.

I feel so alone in this world sometimes, cause I can't have these conversation with other women that I know because all of them seem to be having so much trouble in this department and tend to get quite snooty with me if I try to bring it up. When there is a conversation about sex I usually just put my head down because I can't relate. I was hoping to finally be able to get some advice, I feel safe talking here cause I don't have to see the people I am talking to. Not sure if any of that made sense or not but there it is.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008):

Be glad you can orgasm in other styles and stop pressurising yourself - its not the Olympics

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (18 September 2008):

DoubleM agony auntMost women do not even orgasm via intercourse alone, and you said that you are pleasured with most positions - therefore, you are apparently very fortunate. While it may seem notable to add this position to your successful repertoire with orgasm, I think that everyone has favorites and activities that work for them. If it remains important to you, then consider using a position that works best up to the point that orgasm is imminent, then switch to doggie and experience what happens. Another stimulation convenient during doggie is some anal massage or finger penetration, if that happens to increase your arousal. Clitoral stimulation with his fingers is also an added arousal possibility during doggie-style intercourse.

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