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writes:help, i have been seperated from my partner for the past 6 months, we were together for 16 years have a house together and two children a son of 13 and a daughter of 2 and a half, i love her so much, the thing is i think she is in a new relationship, i have been trying to find out if she is or not, she has told me many lies over the past few months i have been watching her house and reading her emails all this getting me down, she wont talk to me . What do i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): I don't think I would talk to you either. I don't doubt that you are very down right now, but stalking her is NOT going to bring her back. It's going to scare her, and send her running to another man.
I can't fathom being with someone that long, so I really can't sympathize, but I do empathize with you. Give her space while maintaining a close relationship with your kids because thats the most important thing right now. Maybe it will work, but maybe it wont. The more you push the further away she will go.
Please please please stay away from her house unless she invites you. That just sounds like a horrible idea!
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