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writes:I was in a relationship with a girl happened to be 3 years younger than me and the relationship lasted for like two years. But last year, around same time, she dumped me saying I was not in a position to keep any relationship going due to my odd job and not stable financial position. After being dumped, for next two weeks I kept on messaging and calling her to make her change her mind but she didn’t move an inch from her position and then I went quiet not contacting her until recently. But five days back, I couldn’t take that pain inside me anymore and went to her apartment and bowed down on her knees , crying and begging to take me back and she agreed, asking me to bring myself and my stuffs back into her apartment .Guys the only reason that why I was so desperate re-uniting with her that she is extremely beautiful and got so many offers for modeling but she refused . She is loving me and doing all stuffs for me like cleaning and making food ever since I got back into her place but sometimes I feel that I might hurt my ego by begging my way back into her life? Oh yeah, I am still doing that odd job . Won’t she dump me again ? Or she has got changed ? You people precious take on my situation would be of great help ! Thank you!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (3 October 2011):
 Begging is not a sign of humility. It's actually quite aggressive and people resort to it when they are not willing to accept 'no' for an answer. You knew she was unhappy with you, but you didn't care. You wanted her to stay so YOU would be happy.
Your girlfriend is exceptionally pretty, and she takes care of you. That's great for you, but what about her? What does SHE get out of it? She was miserable before and nothing has changed so she is still miserable. So, yes, I do think it's only a matter of time before she dumps you again.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 October 2011):
 no one but you and her know if she's really changed but you are willing to take the chance so does it matter?
You went to her and convinced her, for how ever long she's willing to go this round, to take you back. She may dump you again. Maybe you should try to find a better job? A more stable job?
No one but you can say if she's really changed and it may be months or even years before she shows her true feelings.
Did you ASK HER why she let you come back if nothing has changed? That would be good information to have.
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