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writes: Hi I really liked a guy I was seeing I am 26 he is just 28. Since I brought up the situation of the status of our relationship he has gone cold with not much contact. What can I do to really get him to take notice and get him to be like he was before, wanting to see me and all over me.There are lots of guys who want to go out with me but unfortunately I really like him and have not liked anyone this much for ages!Thanks.xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): Good advice from marie! Don't try to get in touch with him; just leave him alone and see if he contacts you. If you don't hear anything after say, another three weeks, you could phone or email to ask how he is WITHOUT bringing up "relationship talk"! Either he'll be pleased to hear from you; mildly interested, or not wanting to talk at all.
Then you'll have a btter idea how things are. Its a mistake to try to convince or persuade him to feel something he doesn't. Just focus on what interests HIM.
Whatever happens, you'll have to accept it - either he'll be just as enthusiastic once more - or not. In any case, it won't do any harm to date a few others! You don't have to fall in love with them!
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reader, marie78 +, writes (5 December 2006):
Don't do anything... start dating other guys. He'll come around. He might be taking some time to think about your question and the situation. Guys aren't going to make a committment without thinking about it for a while. So, don't sweat it. he just needs time to himself.
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