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writes: I feel nervous about my b/f going away a week without me..i seriously believe that whether its a guy or girl..if you are away for a week with friends at bars where a lot of partying is happening--you are going to wind up crossing the line somehow--whether its flirting or touching or "innocent" kiss or something that went even further...my b/f thinks he deserves a week away and some down time. He is willing to go away with me but also wants to go away without me...what do i do....very upset.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (11 April 2007):
 You're already assumimg he's a liar and a cheater. He can't win with you because of your weakness. He's guilty before he's even committed the crime. He'll tire of that treatment and you'll scare him away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm scared of him going to a place like that where there is temptation b/c you are surrounded by a party environment ALL week and then never finding out what truly happened.
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reader, eddie +, writes (10 April 2007):
If he specifically told you he wants to go awoay without you, that wasn't very smart. You also seem to be worrying too much. He could cheat any time he likes. Here , there or anywhere. You can't control him or stop him. So, it doesn't make you foolish for trusting him, that's what we're supposed to do. That's what love is. If he cheats, he's the loser. The burden is on him to behave. What makes you so scared?
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