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writes:I need to know if im abnormal for getting more attracted to guys with a bit of edge? It puts me off if a guy is too over kind, you know you can do anything and theylle be there... I want them to be unpredictable, I want to be kept on my toes. It just makes me want them more! I have had so many bad relationships, Ive had enough! I want to be on my own at the mo, but i dont want a leech! I want a challenge. But not a player. I want a guy who can treat me right, but we have to be equal,give and take, not all one way...Is there any guys out there like that? im losing faith. And are there any girls that know where im coming from?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 Hi,
you sound like a friend of mine. She is now 38 and still going out with arseholes. She hates nice guys, but goes out with controlling arseholes who leave her shattered and broken. My wife and I have given up consoling her, there's no point when she just keeps going out with the same type of men time after time.
You are still young so there's hope, but in your brief post you say you are sick of going with these guys and almost in the same breath mention how these are the only guys you are interested in.
Every girl attracts the players, but most see them for what they are, its just a case of you being able to do this as well. Next time you hook up with someone ask your friends for their honest opinion, if they think he's an arsehole they will probably be right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): Have you ever considered that you want to much from a man. if you want all that dont even have a partner and be on your own and just pretend u have a man like that lol goodlook.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): You're very normal for most women I've ever known. It's just not normal for an 18-21yo to have already admitted that she is actively seeking out these messed up relationships herself. You would normally keep blaming "all men" for at least another decade.
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