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I am really shy and didn't know how to react to the closeness, no I am afraid to try again...

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Question - (3 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok I am a really shy female and his bloke tried to snog me and everyone says it just comes natural and you should know what to do, well I didn't and I ende up making a fool of my self and know I am scarred to try again, any advice.

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A female reader, Aunty Em United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2008):

Aunty Em agony auntIt's understandable to be scared. Don't worry.

People are right when they say it comes natural - not when they say 'you should know what to do'.

When this bloke snogged you, or tried to - I imagine the experience was over very quickly as you felt very vulnerable to embarassment.

When you next do it, relax yourself. The other person will know most likely what to do, and when they start to move their lips against yours - you just reciprocate slowly and gently. It's quite easy once you get started.

Don't worry about it x

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