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writes:I am in a relationship with a guy who is 2 years younger than me.We've been together for a year and a half now.He abuse me physically but i keep forgiving him bcoz i love him.I once had a miscariage.I am very possesive as a result we fight quite often.Do u think i should continue my reationship with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 Hun, I'm sorry to hear about this but you need to get outta there.
I've been in that kind of relationship and it really doesn't get you anywhere.
Abuse is not love.
I know you love him... but he doesn't deserve you.
Find a way to get outta there without causing a big fuss and without him gettin violent.
You can't keep making excuses like this. No relationships should have abuse no matter how many times you cover for him.
Good luck hun.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (7 May 2007):
 I think u need to stop this relationship the reason your relationship is not healthy at all he continues to physically abuse you and you continuously makes excuses for him which is not good, I also think the reason you think you love him is because you are obsessed with him. Let this guy go that’s the only way you will get your life back. He has no respect for you and maybe he blames you, saying you are making him beat you up? and you agree with him because you think you are possessive and I honestly think this has lowered your self esteem that you think if you can stop being possessive he stop the abuse? Wrong so run as fast as you can before this guy ruin your life forever, moveon you deserve so much better.
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