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I am married and very unhappy,I constantly think of leaving my husband but never have the courage to so

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Question - (4 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2010)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I am married and very unhappy,I constantly think of leaving my husband but never has the courage to so.We are 10years together and no kids. About six weeks ago I met a man online,he says he is divorce but we have not met yet in person. After few e mails,he asked for my number but he has not called me as he promised.He also said he will not interfere in my marriage but he will be there for me when I need him,He writes me emails everyday,and tell me how much he cares about me.He even mention a marriage few time already. He knows my husband comes home around 5pm so his last e mail is always around 3:pm but I write him also in the evenings but he does not reply.We plan to meet in 2months and I cant wait to see him.I have deeply fallen in love with him.My problem is,he does not say much about himself,only that he loves and will wait for me.

Is he real or just one those players.

He is in his fifties.

Please help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):

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Hello Cerberus and Laura,

Thank you so much for your respond,it means a a lot to me.

I will keep you update when I take the step.

Thanks

Tyrah

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (5 November 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntBefore you meet him, I suggest you get a divorce. Gather your courage and get a divorce. I know it has been a long time and you might even fear the future without anyone beside you but you must rid yourself of these fears and get a divorce so that when you do meet this new man who you have fallen so deeply in love with, you can do so with dignity and without the fears that follow an affair.

I am not sure where I stand with this new man you encountered online. He may not be the man you thought he was in the end so whatever happens, just be careful so you do not get your feelings hurt if he is not what you fell in love with.

I hope that helps.

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