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I am getting my bachelor's degree soon, while my boyfriend has low ambitions and goals! I don't know if I can deal with this!

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Question - (16 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i am getting my bachelors degree soon, but my boyfriend only has his high school degree he works and he gets 1200 a month, he does not have a bank account and he lives by sleeping at his friends place, i love him so much and he loves me dearly, the thing is i do not know if i can deal with that, i need some one with ambition and goals!! he was in school but stopped going now he cannot enter because he owes the school 700 dollars!!

what would you do if you were in my situation? would you stay or leave?

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (16 April 2010):

Wow, $700 derails his future? You and he are not aligned, do yourselves both a huge favor, end this and move on. Long term this is NOT going to work out and will be more painful and more expensive... just wait till he can't crash on people's couches and owes $7,000... or $70,000... it happens.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010):

Leave him. Now. Seriously your smart look at him look at you look at yourself with him 8 years from now think about it.

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