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I am female but very attracted to my best girlfriend, am I bi-sexual?

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Question - (1 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ayVee writes:

so this is kinda hard to talk about but i kind of think im bi? im turnin 14 and i guess yu can say im kinda having feelings for my best friend,like i tend to stare at her constinly,and she kinda gets me horny. what should i do?

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A female reader, well-help United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2009):

well-help agony auntim 14 and i genuenly think its the age because you have so many hormones flying around

because im quet attracted to one of my best girl mates so dont worry about it just be yourself and if you do start to develop stronger feelings anought to say you are bi or are a lesbian dont be ashamed because if people dont acsept you for you then their not worth your time.

try tellingyour friends you think your bi, or ask her if shes ever though of girls inthat way and if she ever get of with another girl just to see hre views on it then you'll know better

goodluckkk xoxo

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2009):

Niki is wrong.

At your age your hormones are going crazy. They are making your body physically change and making you grow 2 foot taller. They are going to have some affect on your brain.

It's perfectly normal to be curious and get crushes on girls at your age. You are close to your friend and you love her and you know she is pretty so your hormones are going to make you feel like this.

At your age then this could well be a phase, so don't think that you are going to be like this for life.

It could also be the start of being bi-sexual, don't get me wrong, but for now just chill out and enjoy the feelings you have.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (1 June 2009):

niki20 agony auntsounds like your more or less bi curious. try talking to her about it and see her reaction the best she could do is freak but you would never know if you have a chance w/ living out your fantasy with her if you dont talk w/her.

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