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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi ive never asked for help like ths before but then again ive never behaved like this before! Any advice would be appriciated.Firstly im a Major in the British Army, a doctor and a lesbian. I dont hide my sexuality nor do i shout it from the roomtops. I recently performed the medicals for the Officer recruits hoping to take part in an extensive and highly demanding course.( i cant give any further details) One of the recruits a young female lesbian Captin from the Armys nursing Corps really caught my eye. Part of the medical includes exercises performed in only underware so any potential structural weeknesses can be indentified, male and female recruits are together during this process as such the recruits are told to wear regulation white cotton underware. The young captin did not, she wore black lace panties and bra that excentuated her frankly perfect figure. Long muscular legs, hourglass figure, flat stomach, full breasts, gorgeous face and hair past her shoulder blades. Myself and the other staff expected her to be removed from the course immediately as the Colonel was due to inspect the potentioal recruits, which was a shame as she was passing all the tests with flying colours. When the Colonel questioned her about the underware she simply stated that she was a QA (Queen Alexanders, military nurses) and as such there were standards not only expected of her but that she had for herself. The Colonel found this highly amusing and although the captin did not go unpunished she remains on the course. My problem simply is my behaviour towards her, im short tempered, unhelpful and bordering on unprofessional (uncaring) regarding mediacal issues. She recently injured her shoulder and instead of visiting me has strapped the shoulder herself. i only know this because i saw her undress for a shower after PT. The woman is amazing all the male recruits are protective of her as if she were there little sister yet still take orders from her without question. And whats left of the female recruits are her best friends. She is always in control of her self, confident without been arrogant and happy to admit she was wrong and take advice from others. Im falling in love with her but continue to push her away, she is always polite towards me but is no longer as open and friendly as she used to be. I cant blame her i just have no idea how to explain that i like her. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): Such behavioral changes show how much of an effect she has made on you. Don't let it get away from you! You need to step back and get a hold on your attitude. This is obviously easier said than done, but you have it in you, use her as your self motivation to improve. Practice being extra nice to your friends, even complete strangers. Then approach her, ask her about her injury, her general wellbeing, her weekend. If you really cannot change your behavior, see a professional who can train you to take control. Most of it probably comes from being nervous in her presence, but if she is so perfect to you, then she is worth all effort. Think about your tone before you speak, don't say anything negative, most importantly, relax and just be yourself. Age old advice, i know, but it is so true. You CAN do it!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 She is your junior in the army and your army training and way of life has made you the way you are.In the short stint that she has been in contact with you , she has formed an opinion of you .It is not easy to overturn those opinions and it will take time for her to change her mind about you.
You could start by being mellow a bit and soften up your image to her and hope she sees and feels the change in you.You could be her mentor and make her feel that she is some one special to you.It is actions which speaks louder than words. Let your actions speak for you if you cannot find those words.
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