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writes:I am at wits end..i had my phone stolen by someone with whom i had sex..he threatened to take my photos, stored phone numbers,etc. and expose me to others as being gay..He asked for money in return for the phone and information..i gave him what he asked for..now, i fear that this still might continue if he still has the information..i seek help..should i get my phone number changed so he wont bother me anymore..or will this just aggravate him even more wanting to do harm to me by telling others about our one time gay sex..i cannot reveal my orientation or i am ruined..please help me..
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (1 December 2007):
 You can say you lost your phone and thats it. If he calls someone you can just say your phone was lost. On the other hand, if he has pictures of the two of you that is a whole new deal itself.
If he is a sex worker (which sounds like because he stole your phone and keeps asking for money), blackmail him by saying you will call the cops.
On the other hand, someone knowing you are gay will not ruin you as long as you are sincere about it. That is your sexual orientation and if this has been your first time, there is no betrayal yet. Just don't say you had sex with him, maybe just oral.
Good luck!
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (1 December 2007):
 The question is can he prove your gay can he prove anything happend? Hmmm most likely no. You live in the modern world loads of people are gay why continue being in the closet come on join the real world be who you are be true to yourself, and to be honest its more then likely people already know. So come on dont let this guy ruin your life come out and be proud to be who you are!
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