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writes:I'm attracted to our female church pastor. She's married. I took her for coffee, but I think she picked up my motives cuz she won't email me anymore. I couldn't stop thinking about her, but it's getting better now. It was terrible! I was waking up in the middle of the night thinking about her, yet I'm sure I mean nothing more than a parishioner to her.I fear she may have picked up my bad motives (even tho nothing even physical happened (other than a hug) and told the brass at church.I feel really bad about my bad thots (infatuation) and motives (to be honest, adultery)What do I do other than nothing Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 February 2013):
 switch places of worship would be the best advice...
baring that... not much you can do.
you have a crush... it will pass...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2013): It seem's like you are giving yourself a hard time over nothing and so what if you are attracted to her it's not a crime and you are only human after all. And I doubt its half as bad as you think because when you worry about a situation you usually make it out to be worse than it actually is and predict that others will see it that way too. When you have not done anything wrong. And she has got the impression that you are abit attracted to her and so what if she doesn't email you it is probably she doesn't want a relationship but that doesn't mean that you she thinks badly of you take it from another female. But if you feel that you can't just be how you are now and the feelings are making you feel uncomfortable to just see her without anything more then maybe you should think about moving to a different church.Hope this helps.
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reader, Starmonster888  +, writes (4 February 2013):
 What do you do other than nothing? That's a rather limiting question. You can't go around restricting people from giving you the only good advise possible in scenario. I'll give it to you anyway: nothing, that's what now. You do nothing.
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (4 February 2013):
If you can't get over it, worship elsewhere.
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