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writes:right, there's 2 girls that fancy me. They're both friends. I like one of them but I am afraid that people will give me a bad time at school like people calling me and stuff, (because she's a bit big) and she won't go out with me or doing any thing with me because her friend fancies me as well. What should I do, will somebody please help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (5 October 2008):
 Don't be put off by her because she is a little big, she may well be a very caring loving person. And you should not worry about what others think, all that matters is what you think. If you really like her just find a good moment and ask her if she fancies doing something after school, or at the weekend and see how it goes.
All the best
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reader, chandra Mcmillan +, writes (5 October 2008):
 Hi, You have to ask yourself the question, IF YOUR SUPPOSED FRIENDS BULLY YOU FOR HAVING A CHUNKY GIRLFRIEND DO YOU CARE? If you really like this girl and she likes you then the size of her should make no difference.
I struggled going through school because of my size but now I am older I find men think I am nice for me not my size.
You and your female friend should do what feels right for you and no one else. Good luck mate !
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): Your real friends should support you! Don't let size be the issue, she may well be he one for you. She sounds like she is being a really good friend to her friend - its one of those unwritten rules that you don't tread on your friends toes. However, real mates don't begrudge someone happiness. Just make sure that if you choose one over the other, you don't steal her away, her mate'll get too jealous!
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