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writes:I'm 16 and would like to be in a relationship. I'm intelligent, athletic, caring, and friendly. I would take care of any guy even if I didn't like him, because it's the right thing to do. My looks aren't great (they are okay only if my skin is clear) but I think I have other things to offer. Why don't guys EVER like me back? What can I do to keep a guy interested? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Yos  + ♥, writes (3 April 2008):
 "I would take care of any guy even if I didn't like him, because it's the right thing to do."
Are you sure that's the right thing to do? That sounds like a recipe for being taken advantage of to me.
The trick to keeping a guy interested is to find a guy who is honestly interested in you to start with. Many guys will pretend to be in order to get sex, but then lose interest very soon after and go chasing someone else.
So how can you tell if a guy is honestly interested in you?
The most reliable way to find out if a guy is honestly interested in you is to date for a long while before having sex. And I mean longer than the third date. If he's really does like you he'll be fine with that. If he just wants sex he'll get bored and, perhaps after trying to pressure you or guilt trip you into sex, or perhaps after just not returning your calls, he'll disappear.
It takes some self-control on your part, but it works.
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (3 April 2008):
 In my experience, guys like girls who are fun and low maintenance. Don't obsess about your flaws, just do what you can to fix them, but for yourself, not for guys to like you.
Make friends with guys, but don't be a tomboy. Give it time and you will eventually find love!
Looks don't really matter: I've always been fat, I wear glasses too, yet I've had many more boyfriends than my friends who look like models!
You just have to be happy within yourself and enjoy life. You're very young still and remember that most guys your age aren't after a relationship yet.
Be patient and love will come your way!
God bless you and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): You sound like a lovely person. The first step is to love yourself. Don't rush into a relationship just because you think you should have one. Get to know yourself, be your own best friend first and think about a relationship second. Don't worry too much about looks, make the most of yourself, be clean and well groomed, that's important. Pamper yourself every now and again. Feel special and other people will think you're special, too. Bless you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Guys somtimes are blind to all the good things in life . The go for the it girl ya know !!! it sucks
the never know a good thing til it's gone . Try being and little more aoutgoing and talkitive around guys . might help ....
I hope this helped a bit
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