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writes: i am a 17 year old girl and recently went on holiday to spain with my dad his girlfrien and all her family. thing is me and her brother got really close just like talking and enjoying eachothers company. now we are back in england and we've swapped numbers, texted each other and been talking on the phone. thing is im reallly starting to like him. i told him how i felt n he said he feels the same. however neither of us are keen to go any further as he is my dads girlfriends brother and plus he is 5 years older than me. but we cant turn our feelings off. is it worth upsetting a lot of people just to make ourselves happy????
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhave not yet told my dad but told my mum and she did not like it at all. mainly because she thinks it will just be about sex. and he has a 2 year old son. am just plucking up the courage to tell my dad now :s
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 Just remember the earlier you come clean to your Dad the better as he may get hurt on finding out you both hid it from him and things have a funny way of always coming out no matter how careful you are about it.
Good luck, hope it all works out for you both :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice. we have deciedd just to see how it goes and if we do have something serious then we will sit and talk to my dad. we have also said that whatever happens we will stay mates. thank you all for puttin me at ease xxx
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
Your legally old enough, it's only 5 years difference and he isn't a blood relative so I don't see the problem, you both need to sit down with your Dad and his girlfriend and explain how you both feel and making it clear whatever happens you both won't let what goes on with you two interfer in the family in any way and go from there, but as far as I can see they really haven't got any reason to try to stop or discourage you from going after what you both want.
Good luck :o)
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