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writes:I'm a 14 year old girl and I watch porn constantly.Is this normal? I feel like it is not usual for girls to be this horny.Sorry for asking such an akward question,but has anyone been in my position before?
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reader, timetobefree +, writes (29 September 2007):
While viewing porn has often been deemed as "boys will be boys" normal activity...many girls and women also view porn.
While pornography gives false information about sex and sexual intimacy many continue to view it innocently enough or out of curiosity. The problem with porn is that it is NOT real! Real sex is NOT like what is shown on these sites/videos/magazines. Those who escalate to frequent porn use, tend to have relationship problems and research is showing that simialarly to alcohol use, the younger the person is that is doing it the more likely they are to grow up and become adults with problems with it. Something to think about.
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 September 2007):
 I'm wasn't stating you do porn over the school work. I was giving an example of on way, at your age, you could tell if an addiction was reaching an unhealthy level. For people my age, I would have used going to work, extending lunch breaks etc. Because true addictions interfere with everyday priorities.
There are thousands upon thousands of people who view porn on a regular basis. The people I worry about are those who are in a relationship and sneak around just to watch it, and stop spending as much time with their partner because of it. As I said before, hormone changes can come out in this way, making you feel a bit more heated, and more often. I would research addictions, and see if you meet the elements of an actual addiction. Just type in your search "porn addiction and elements" That will help you out a great deal because they can also supply answers to why, and how to deal with it.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone.But I am an A student and I'm smarter than to leave off my school work for porn. I was just wondering if anyone has been in my position,but I think I am curious for the most part.Thanks! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): Your growing up, when I was your age I liked watching sex too sometimes. But you shouldn't be addicted to it, you need to lay off it.
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reader, rcn +, writes (16 September 2007):
There are a lot of people in your position. I agree with the doc, but in a way disagree as well. It is unhealthy to consume your mind with it. It can turn out to be an addiction, and not just an every now and then thing. If you read enough of these questions, you'll find it does take a negative toll on relationship too.
You're young, your growing and during the transition during puberty you will experience some weird feelings. Some of which may include being horny, depressed, lost, confused. As your hormones are playing a three ring circus in your system for the next few years, this may not be the only question you have with your feelings. It's normal too during this time to be a bit curious.
On the other end, if you felt as if this was OK, you wouldn't be asking the question. I see addictions as activities which we take part in that disrupt us from taking care of what's important to get accomplished. Such as, you have homework do, you know you do, but instead of completing it, you watch your porn leaving you to cram to get it done, or go to school without it completed.
I would find something else of interest. What do you like to do, aside from your question? Find something else you're interested in to focus your time on. If you begin focusing your attention on something else, you can eliminate one habit and replace it with a more beneficial one.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (16 September 2007):
 Hon, I must say it is an un-healthy thing to occupy your mind with.
There are many many reasons that no one regardless of there age or gender should be viewing porn. It causes countless problems with relationships, attitudes, etc. I can not even mention all the problems you are getting into here. I have supplied a link for you to check out. Please for your sake check it out and think on it seriously. You will be better off in the long run. Doc.
http://www.filterguide.com/harmful.htm
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