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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): jaxwardle86 i am in exactly the same predicument as you i am only 20 years old and i have two girls already ages 1& 2 and i just found out i am 6 weeks pregnant and i too was thinking of termination after researching it 1st i decided it wasnt morally right for me and 2nd its prohibited in my religon so i figured it would be best to go threw with it even thow im despairing how im gonna cope lol i just hope you made the right chioce
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reader, jaxwardle86  +, writes (13 June 2006):
jaxwardle86 is verified as being by the original poster of the question First of all i want to thank everyone for theyre help and advice. We have to decided to go for the abortion as either way is gonna cause a problem for me emotionally and physically but i have to put the kids i already have in front of me. And at least this way it won't affect them. Please don't think i'm bad person i'm not doing this for myself (if that were true i know 100% i'd keep the baby) tc xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2006): I think you should listen to reason. I know its hard, but you have a 1 in 3 chance of a natural miscarriage anyway, so what is the difference. life sounds very busy and I dont think you could cope with another child. dont feel guilty there are 5 other people you are doing this for.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (11 June 2006):
 I think you already have your mind made up that you would rather keep the baby.
Deep inside, you are confronting your feelings and heart is telling not to terminate.
Just remember that first time your child looks at you, you already have 2, so will know what I mean.
I feel termination is the last thing you want and may cause psychological periods later in life.
I hope you make the decision which your heart is telling you.
Best wishes, I am here if you want to talk, just as you offered your support to me.
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reader, sibaan +, writes (11 June 2006):
 i had an abortion and i still battle to face myself whenever i see a baby or an adorable child. its a pain that never goes waawy, it leaves an empty space inside you. rather give him/her up for adoption that way you can still give him/her a chance at life....
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reader, jaxwardle86 +, writes (11 June 2006):
jaxwardle86 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThats all very well and good but if i keep the baby i will have to have another ceaserean section which would then mean i could never have another baby. And i know i could never ever give my baby up for adoption that is not an option for me. it would break my heart to hear that first cry then have it whisked away from me. thank you anyway xxx
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reader, Annabelle +, writes (11 June 2006):
No.Do not have an abortion.If you really can not keep the child give him up for adoption.It is a good thing that your husband supports you.It will make things a lot easier.Remember that that child deserves a chance he did not ask to be here.
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reader, Annabelle +, writes (11 June 2006):
Do not have an abortion.it will haunt u forever.rather give the baby up for adoption if u really cant keep him yourself.Remember that he didnt ask to be in this world and he deserves a chance.
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